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This hair is on fiiiiiire
#nonose #lp #workinghardobviously

This hair is on fiiiiiire
#nonose #lp #workinghardobviously

— 2 days ago with 2 notes
#workinghardobviously  #lp  #nonose 
Anonymous asked: I was wondering, if it still counts as rape if he's my boyfriend and I don't really say "no" .He does this thing where he'll put his hands on me and every time I push them away he tries again until I give up and just lie there.


Answer:

lora-mathis:

Yes. Being in a relationship or involved with someone does not give them automatic consent. “Consent means to give permission. It is both people’s responsibility to get consent from their partners. Everyone has the right to decide whether they want to have sex or not. Consent is…Freely given — no pressure, no manipulation, and no asking if it was ok to do halfway through or after the fact. Informed — telling them about any STDs they should know about, being honest about using condoms and birth control, and being honest about whether you’re sexually active with other people. Something you can take back — it’s ok to stop or change your mind at any time. Saying “yes” once doesn’t mean saying “yes” forever, or “yes” to other sexual activities. Enthusiastic — being excited about it, not just letting it happen. When people think about consent, “no means no” often comes to mind. But saying “yes” is really important, too. A straight-up “yes!” means that no one has to guess or assume anything, and you’ll know they’re really into it.” 

I am so sorry your boyfriend does that. That is NOT okay. 

— 6 days ago with 71 notes
#consent  #rape  #important  #no means no  #yes means yes 
Late night doodles. My body is a canvas 
#cantcommittoarealtattoo
#soijustdrawbadlyonmyself 
#sharpieworkswonders

Late night doodles. My body is a canvas
#cantcommittoarealtattoo
#soijustdrawbadlyonmyself
#sharpieworkswonders

— 1 week ago
#sharpieworkswonders  #soijustdrawbadlyonmyself  #cantcommittoarealtattoo 
"I didn’t want you
to only fuck me,
I wanted you to
love me.

But I didn’t know what to
convince you with
besides my body."
Hot Winds, Holy Thoughts | Lora Mathis (via lora-mathis)

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— 2 weeks ago with 69634 notes
#poetry  #lit  #lora mathis 
Life is like a woman You only call it a bitch cause she won’t give you the pussy - old gem from Buena Vista Park

Life is like a woman
You only call it a bitch cause she won’t give you the pussy
- old gem from Buena Vista Park

— 2 weeks ago with 1 note
#Buena Vista Park  #SF  #San Francisco 
Fuck you too

You once said you were afraid
that I’d want to say two words to you. 
It’s strange you were the one
to say them to me. 
I know you won’t even remember
uttering them blind drunk
But you know what,
Fuck you too

— 2 weeks ago
#hey at least you finally cursed  #3:33am  #8/31  #personal  #me 
"Years ago I learned a very cool thing about Robin Williams, and I couldn’t watch a movie of his afterward without thinking of it. I never actually booked Robin Williams for an event, but I came close enough that his office sent over his rider. For those outside of the entertainment industry, a rider lists out an artist’s specific personal and technical needs for hosting them for an event, anything from bottled water and their green room to sound and lighting requirements. You can learn a lot about a person from their rider. This is where rocks bands list their requirement for green M&Ms (which is actually a surprisingly smart thing to do). This is also where a famous environmentalist requires a large gas-guzzling private jet to fly to the event city, but then requires an electric or hybrid car to take said environmentalist to the event venue when in view of the public.
When I got Robin Williams’ rider, I was very surprised by what I found. He actually had a requirement that for every single event or film he did, the company hiring him also had to hire a certain number of homeless people and put them to work. I never watched a Robin Williams movie the same way after that. I’m sure that on his own time and with his own money, he was working with these people in need, but he’d also decided to use his clout as an entertainer to make sure that production companies and event planners also learned the value of giving people a chance to work their way back. I wonder how many production companies continued the practice into their next non-Robin Williams project, as well as how many people got a chance at a job and the pride of earning an income, even temporarily, from his actions. He was a great multiplier of his impact. Let’s hope that impact lives on without him. Thanks, Robin Williams- not just for laughs, but also for a cool example."
Brian Lord.org  (via michellewilliamss)

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— 4 weeks ago with 80911 notes
#OMG  #THIS IS BEAUTIFUL  #robin williams  #I JUST CANT 
"So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, 
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.” - Jorge Luis Borges 💋

"So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.” - Jorge Luis Borges 💋

— 4 weeks ago with 1 note

Guys make no sense!

It is time to move on. 

But like, can somebody please explain what has been going on the past 10 months? Cause I’m just like “whaaa?” 

— 1 month ago
#so confused  #tinder FTW  #? 

thespacegoat:

the fact women are viewed as being more sexy at 15 than 40 is the creepiest thing in the world

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— 1 month ago with 104093 notes

juliagazdag:

cyberneticsoul:

omgoswin:

kylesbogusjourney:

Female privilege is getting to claim a headache to avoid sex.

Female oppression is having to claim physical illness to avoid sex because men won’t take a simple fucking “no” for an answer.

Female oppression is men being so entitled that they think being denied sex is oppressive.

Nail, head, meet hammer.

I will never not reblog this. 

— 1 month ago with 603841 notes
#fucking a  #female oppression  #feminism 
"‎’Slut’ is attacking women for their right to say yes. ‘Friend Zone’ is attacking women for their right to say no."
And “bitch” is attacking women for their right to call you on it (via moldmaiden)

(Source: emilys-nostalgia, via juliagazdag)

— 1 month ago with 913999 notes
#YASSSSS  #feminism  #misogyny  #idk what to tag this  #slut shaming  #friend zone 
dysfunctionalqueer:

proudly-pro-choice:

shootinthebulltx:

Over 1 millions children are killed every year in elective abortions, almost 50,000 of them after 16 weeks. Now let’s talk about how to best save their lives. #abortion #forthechildrenhttp://click-to-read-mo.re/p/7zhv/536a421d

I really just love pro-life logic.
Why help those who have been born when we can stick our noses into other people’s private health care matters? Lets try to get them to keep their pregnancies! We can go back to ignoring them after they give birth.
Yeah, makes total sense, right?

You want to save children?
How about we start with the 397,000 in foster care in the U.S. and give them loving, permanent homes? x
Or the 1.5 million homeless children in america? X
Or the 16.2 million children who are going hungry in america? X
Or the 18,900,000 children who are refuges, running from violence in their homelands? X
Or the 6 million children in the U.S. alone who are abused each year? X
Or the 1.2 million children who are trafficked, sold as slaves, usually sexual slaves, each year? X
Oh, no, let’s start with the non-sentient fetuses that can’t feel pain, or know what’s going on. 
Let’s ignore these millions and millions of living, breathing children who are living through hell right now. 

dysfunctionalqueer:

proudly-pro-choice:

shootinthebulltx:

Over 1 millions children are killed every year in elective abortions, almost 50,000 of them after 16 weeks. Now let’s talk about how to best save their lives. #abortion #forthechildren

http://click-to-read-mo.re/p/7zhv/536a421d

I really just love pro-life logic.

Why help those who have been born when we can stick our noses into other people’s private health care matters? Lets try to get them to keep their pregnancies! We can go back to ignoring them after they give birth.

Yeah, makes total sense, right?

You want to save children?

How about we start with the 397,000 in foster care in the U.S. and give them loving, permanent homes? x

Or the 1.5 million homeless children in america? X

Or the 16.2 million children who are going hungry in america? X

Or the 18,900,000 children who are refuges, running from violence in their homelands? X

Or the 6 million children in the U.S. alone who are abused each year? X

Or the 1.2 million children who are trafficked, sold as slaves, usually sexual slaves, each year? X

Oh, no, let’s start with the non-sentient fetuses that can’t feel pain, or know what’s going on. 

Let’s ignore these millions and millions of living, breathing children who are living through hell right now. 

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— 1 month ago with 43664 notes
#abortion 
idontlikeyourcat:

vworp-goes-the-tardis:

maehkon:

acacophony:

littleojibwe:

tanninginparadise:

See this picture? This comes from a town in Canada where a 24 pack of water bottles is 104 dollars and formula milk for a baby is priced at 55 dollars a pack. What’s more, a pack of diapers is 95 dollars and one head of lettuce is 26 dollars. Inuit people are starving in a country known for it’s generosity.
If you don’t believe this is true, you can find more images like this here. This is the only grocery store these people have in their small towns, and many people are going hungry & elderly are dying faster.
You’ll send aid to foreign children that are starving, so why won’t you pay a little extra to feed the people in your own country who work hard & still can’t afford the prices for healthy food for their families?
Please have a heart and reblog this photo to raise awareness that even in our own countries people are starving, join the movement and show the government that we won’t sit by and watch people starve. 
If you think this will make your blog ugly you’re wrong. Children in a first world country are getting sick & starving, and nobody is even aware it’s happening. You can let people know by reblogging and showing you care. People I am close to, my friends and future in-laws are going through this. 

Love how little attention this post gets from my beach blog followers.

Ok I didn’t think this could possibly be for real, but I found a news source on the matter. This is insane.

YES, this is real.

the way the Canadian government treats the native people here is actually disgusting. The reserves sometimes have a lower life expectancy and the general living quality of third world countries. This isn’t common knowledge and it needs to be.

The first time I heard how expensive a gallon of milk was, I thought they were lying to me.

idontlikeyourcat:

vworp-goes-the-tardis:

maehkon:

acacophony:

littleojibwe:

tanninginparadise:

See this picture? This comes from a town in Canada where a 24 pack of water bottles is 104 dollars and formula milk for a baby is priced at 55 dollars a pack. What’s more, a pack of diapers is 95 dollars and one head of lettuce is 26 dollars. Inuit people are starving in a country known for it’s generosity.

If you don’t believe this is true, you can find more images like this here. This is the only grocery store these people have in their small towns, and many people are going hungry & elderly are dying faster.

You’ll send aid to foreign children that are starving, so why won’t you pay a little extra to feed the people in your own country who work hard & still can’t afford the prices for healthy food for their families?

Please have a heart and reblog this photo to raise awareness that even in our own countries people are starving, join the movement and show the government that we won’t sit by and watch people starve. 

If you think this will make your blog ugly you’re wrong. Children in a first world country are getting sick & starving, and nobody is even aware it’s happening. You can let people know by reblogging and showing you care. People I am close to, my friends and future in-laws are going through this. 

Love how little attention this post gets from my beach blog followers.

Ok I didn’t think this could possibly be for real, but I found a news source on the matter. This is insane.

YES, this is real.

the way the Canadian government treats the native people here is actually disgusting. The reserves sometimes have a lower life expectancy and the general living quality of third world countries. This isn’t common knowledge and it needs to be.

The first time I heard how expensive a gallon of milk was, I thought they were lying to me.

(via juliagazdag)

— 1 month ago with 113950 notes